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Lovitations Wedding Cost Index · last updated 25 September 2026 · figures as of 7 August 2026

What does the average wedding in the Netherlands cost in 2026?

An average wedding in the Netherlands costs €23,675 in 2026, excluding the honeymoon; a day guest costs about €125, an evening guest an estimated €35, and for 2027 we expect €24,500. Those figures come from the Lovitations Wedding Cost Index, our own series going back to 2014.

What stands out is not just the amount but the pace. In base year 2014 the same wedding cost €11,925; in twelve years it has risen 99% to €23,675 (Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026). Had weddings simply tracked general inflation (CBS, Statistics Netherlands), you would have ended up at €16,590 in 2026, a rise of 39%. So getting married became more expensive about 2.5 times as fast as life in general.

This study is built on our own index. The series starts in 2014, the first year covered by a national survey of Dutch married couples, and is modelled on the published anchors from 2014, 2019, 2022 and 2026, with price series from CBS (Statistics Netherlands) for hospitality, municipal fees and general inflation filling the years in between. We deliberately anchor the 2026 figure to the most widely quoted market figure right now (ThePerfectWedding). Read that figure for what it is: a sum of average supplier rates, not a survey of couples. To work with it, we link it ourselves to a reference wedding of 50 day guests and 100 evening guests; you can read why under the costs by number of guests. What this index adds is not a new annual figure, but one continuous series from 2014, excluding honeymoon, plus a reconciliation of all the conflicting amounts in circulation.

Average Dutch wedding 2026€23,675complete, excl. honeymoon
Increase since 2014+99%general inflation: +39%
Cost per day guest€125€100 – €150
Forecast 2027€24,500+3.5% on 2026

How much does the average wedding in the Netherlands cost?

How much does the average wedding in the Netherlands cost? In 2026, €23,675 on average for a complete day, excluding the honeymoon (Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026). That's the whole picture: ceremony, venue, food and drink, outfits, photographer, music, flowers, rings and all the little items you only notice once you start adding things up.

Ask the same question in other words and the answer stays the same. 'What does a wedding cost', 'average wedding cost' and 'how much is a wedding' are all asking about the same bill, and for a Dutch wedding in 2026 it comes to €23,675, without the honeymoon.

So where exactly does the money go? Venue and catering take the biggest share at around €10,200, followed by outfits and beauty (€3,700), photography and video (€2,700), music and entertainment (€1,500), flowers and decoration (€1,075) and the ceremony (€900). The remaining €3,600 forms the seventh cost group, 'other'. Of that, €2,692 is itemised by name (rings €1,400, wedding cake €400, invitations €317, transport €300 and favours €275), leaving €908 for contingencies and the many small items nobody budgets for separately. We deliberately keep that remainder in the tables rather than leaving it out. The split across these seven groups is a Lovitations model output, not a measurement per group.

One warning belongs here: hardly anyone pays exactly the average. Half of all couples spend less, because a small group of expensive weddings pulls the average up. In Flanders, where this has been measured, the median is €12,000 against an average of €15,113 (De Grote Huwelijksenquête 2024). So expect your own total to differ quite a bit, in either direction.

The average wedding in the Netherlands costs €23,675 in 2026, excluding honeymoon: around €10,200 on venue and catering, €3,700 on outfits and beauty, €2,700 on photography and video, and €7,075 across the four remaining cost groups, namely music and entertainment, flowers and decoration, the ceremony and 'other' (Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026; the split per group is a model estimate).

The seven cost groups of the Lovitations Wedding Cost Index: base year 2014 next to 2026. The split per group is a model output, not a measurement.
Cost group20142026Change
Venue & catering€4,825€10,200+111%
Outfits & beauty€2,125€3,700+74%
Photography & video€1,300€2,700+108%
Music & entertainment€725€1,500+107%
Flowers & decoration€550€1,075+95%
Ceremony€450€900+100%
Other (rings, cake, invitations, transport, favours and contingencies)€1,950€3,600+85%
Total€11,925€23,675+99%

See the spread behind that average among real couples

What does a day guest or evening guest cost at a wedding?

At a Dutch wedding in 2026, a day guest costs the couple about €125 and an evening guest an estimated €35, for food, drink and the party. A day guest stays all day, from the ceremony through drinks and dinner to the evening party, and falls within a range of €100 to €150 all-in (Nature Weddings industry benchmark, 2024). An evening guest who only joins for the party costs an estimated €25 to €40 for drinks, nibbles and a slice of cake. And a reception guest, who drops in for one moment for the toast, the cake and a cup of coffee, costs about €12.50. So there's easily a factor of ten between the most and least expensive guest.

We need to be honest about that evening guest figure: there's no published Dutch figure for it. Nature Weddings, the source for day and reception guests, doesn't distinguish evening guests, and the only Dutch publication that does give an amount comes out higher (€30 to €68). So our €35 is a Lovitations model estimate, not a measurement. Feel free to allow a margin around it in your own budget.

That makes your guest list the biggest lever in your whole budget, bigger than your venue or your dress. The logic is one of marginal costs: every extra day guest adds about €125, every extra evening guest an estimated €35. Invite ten more people for the whole day and you add over €1,200 without anything about your party changing. If you want to steer your budget, don't cut the flowers, cut the number of day guests. A common split is 60% day guests and 40% evening guests; with a small budget you'll more often see 50/50, and with a generous budget more like 70/30.

The average Dutch wedding has 105 guests, with a median of 80 (TPW / trouwredes.nl, 2026 figures); the median is lower because a handful of large weddings pulls the average up. And those numbers are falling: since 2019 Dutch couples have invited 12% fewer guests, while the number of micro-weddings with fewer than 30 guests has risen by 28% (trouwredes.nl, 2026). That's no coincidence but a conscious choice: 41% of couples cut guests purely because of the cost (Weddingspaces 2023).

You can see the guest list dominating costs even more sharply in the United States. There, a wedding with up to 50 guests cost $15,000 on average, while more than 100 guests came to $42,000 (The Knot Real Weddings Study, 2024 edition), almost three times as much, with much the same ceremony. Nearly all of the difference is in who's sitting at the tables.

Every extra day guest costs about €125 in 2026 (Nature Weddings industry benchmark), an extra evening guest an estimated €35 (Lovitations model estimate, no published Dutch figure). That makes your guest list the biggest lever in your wedding budget.

  • Day guest (whole day): €100–€150 all-in for food, drink and entertainment (Nature Weddings, 2024).
  • Evening guest (party only): an estimated €25–€40; model estimate, no published Dutch figure.
  • Reception guest (one moment): about €12.50 for the toast, cake and coffee (Nature Weddings, 2024).
  • Common split: 60% day / 40% evening; 50/50 on a small budget, 70/30 on a generous budget.

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Day guests, evening guests and reception guests side by side

Standard amounts per guest type. The day guest and reception guest figures come from a published industry benchmark; the evening guest figure is a Lovitations model estimate.

Bar chart: average cost per day guest, evening guest and reception guestDay guestThe whole day: ceremony, drinks, dinner and evening party.€125Evening guestOnly the evening party: drinks, snacks and a slice of cake.€35Reception guestOne moment: a toast, cake and coffee or tea.€13
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Cost per guest type with range and basis
Guest typeStandard amountRangeWhat's includedBasis
Day guest€125€100 – €150The whole day: ceremony, drinks, dinner and evening party.measured
Evening guest€35€25 – €40Only the evening party: drinks, snacks and a slice of cake.model estimate
Reception guest€13≈ €12.50One moment: a toast, cake and coffee or tea.measured

Source: Nature Weddings (28 June 2024) for day guests and reception guests. There is no published Dutch figure for evening guests, so that amount is a model estimate.

Wedding costs by number of guests

What a wedding costs depends above all on how many guests you invite and how they're split between the day and the evening. We start from a reference wedding of 150 guests, 50 day guests and 100 evening guests, which costs €23,675 in total. For every guest more or fewer we add or subtract the marginal amounts: €125 per day guest and €35 per evening guest.

The rule is: estimated cost = €23,675 + (day guests − 50) × €125 + (evening guests − 100) × €35. For the table below we split each guest count in the same ratio as the reference, one day guest to two evening guests, rounded to whole guests. A wedding with 100 guests then becomes 33 day guests and 67 evening guests: €23,675 minus 17 × €125 minus 33 × €35, about €20,395 in total.

Why 50 and 100? The €23,675 market figure is ThePerfectWedding's sum of average supplier rates, in which dinner, cake, invitations and favours are costed at 50 covers, so with fifty people at the table. On top of that, the Nationaal Trouwonderzoek 2019 measured an average of 52 day guests and 102 evening guests per wedding (n=1,131, published via Nationale-Nederlanden): a small circle for the whole day and a large one for the party. Together, those two give our reference wedding. It remains a Lovitations choice and not a measurement, because no Dutch study measures the cost of a wedding with exactly these numbers.

We deliberately work with marginal costs rather than a price per guest times the number of guests. The €10,200 for venue and catering also covers venue hire, staff and dressing the room, and those barely move with your guest list. A €2,700 photographer, €1,400 rings and €3,700 for the dress and suit cost the same with twenty guests as with two hundred. That's why a small wedding doesn't get proportionally cheaper. The couples in this study who stayed under €10,000 combined a short guest list with a free or weekday town hall ceremony and self- or family-made catering.

Above all, watch the split between day and evening, because it drives the amount more than the total. An evening guest costs a fraction of a day guest: moving twenty guests from the day to the evening easily saves 20 × €90, so €1,800. Planners often quote 60% day guests and 40% evening guests as a typical split. If that's your plan, run your own numbers through the same rule: 60 day guests and 40 evening guests come to about €22,825.

A wedding with 150 guests, 50 day guests and 100 evening guests, costs €23,675 in 2026: the reference wedding of the Lovitations Wedding Cost Index. With 100 guests you arrive at about €20,395 and with 200 guests at about €26,955, our own derivations using €125 per day guest and €35 per evening guest (the latter amount is a model estimate).

Wedding costs by number of guests in 2026, at one day guest to two evening guests. Only 150 guests is the Index's reference; the other rows are Lovitations' own derivations using €125 per day guest (industry benchmark) and €35 per evening guest (model estimate), not measurements.
Total guestsDay guestsEvening guestsEstimated cost
501733≈ €17,205 (derived)
752550≈ €18,800 (derived)
1003367≈ €20,395 (derived)
15050100€23,675 (reference)
20067133≈ €26,955 (derived)

A wedding with 40 guests, say 13 day guests and 27 evening guests, costs about €16,495 by the same rule: €23,675 minus 37 × €125 minus 73 × €35, again a derivation. The shorter the guest list, the more of the budget goes on fixed items, from outfits and photographer to rings and the ceremony.

The budget calculator uses the same amounts per guest, but also scales invitations and favours with the number of guests. That's why, at these numbers, it differs from the table by around €400 at most.

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What will a wedding cost in 2027? The forecast

If you're planning now, you'll usually marry next year, because venues and suppliers are booked nine to eighteen months ahead. That's why this study also looks forward: for 2027 the Lovitations Wedding Cost Index forecasts €24,500 for a complete Dutch wedding, excluding honeymoon. That's +3.5% on the €23,675 of 2026.

The forecast is built item by item, using current price expectations: hospitality prices around +4% (in line with ING's forecasts of recent years), municipal fees +3.8% (the multi-year pace since 2019) and everything else around the expected 3% inflation. In euros, the biggest riser is once again venue & catering: from €10,200 to around €10,600.

In practice, this means that if you book your venue and catering in 2026 with a price-guaranteed quote, you lock the biggest cost item in at this year's prices. Bear in mind this is a forecast based on assumptions, not a measurement. As soon as the first 2027 studies are published, we'll replace these figures with measured values.

A complete Dutch wedding is expected to cost €24,500 in 2027, €825 more than in 2026; if you book venue and catering in 2026, you secure the biggest cost item at today's prices (forecast, Lovitations Wedding Cost Index).

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Wedding costs since 2014 (plus 2027 forecast): weddings versus inflation

The index has risen 99% since 2014. Had it tracked general inflation alone, it would have stood at €16,590 in 2026. The last point (2027) is a forecast.

  • Wedding Cost Index
  • Inflation only
Line chart: average cost of a complete Dutch wedding per year from 2014 to 2026 plus a 2027 forecast, compared with the same wedding had it tracked general inflation only€0€5,000€10,000€15,000€20,000€25,000201420172020202320262027Wedding Cost Index€24,500Inflation only€17,080
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Index value and CPI comparison line per year (euros, nominal). Not every anchor is the same: 'survey' means a study of married couples with a sample size, 'sum of supplier rates' means added-up supplier prices with no sample. The other years are interpolated.
YearWedding Cost IndexTracking inflation only
2014 (anchor, survey)€11,925€11,925
2015€12,325€12,000
2016€12,775€12,030
2017€13,175€12,200
2018€13,650€12,410
2019 (anchor, survey)€14,150€12,730
2020€15,275€12,900
2021€16,525€13,240
2022 (anchor, survey)€17,900€14,570
2023€19,175€15,120
2024€20,600€15,620
2025€22,050€16,140
2026 (anchor, sum of supplier rates)€23,675€16,590
2027 (forecast)€24,500€17,080

Source: Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026 · anchors: Nationaal Trouwonderzoek 2015/2019/2022, ThePerfectWedding · CBS CPI

Where the money goes, year by year

The index split into seven cost groups, 2014–2026, plus the 2027 forecast. The split between groups is a model output, not a measurement per group.

  • Venue & catering
  • Outfits & beauty
  • Photo & video
  • Music & entertainment
  • Flowers & decoration
  • Ceremony
  • Other
Stacked bar chart: the average Dutch wedding cost split into seven cost groups per year, 2014 to 2026, plus the 2027 forecast€0€5,000€10,000€15,000€20,000€25,00020142015201620172018201920202021202220232024202520262027
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Cost groups per year (euros, rounded to €25)
YearVenue & cateringOutfits & beautyPhoto & videoMusic & entertainmentFlowers & decorationCeremonyOther
2014€4,825€2,125€1,300€725€550€450€1,950
2015€5,000€2,175€1,350€750€575€475€2,000
2016€5,200€2,225€1,400€775€600€500€2,075
2017€5,400€2,275€1,450€800€600€525€2,125
2018€5,600€2,325€1,525€850€625€550€2,175
2019€5,850€2,375€1,575€875€650€575€2,250
2020€6,350€2,550€1,700€950€700€625€2,400
2021€6,850€2,750€1,875€1,025€750€675€2,600
2022€7,350€2,975€2,050€1,150€825€700€2,850
2023€8,075€3,125€2,175€1,200€875€725€3,000
2024€8,775€3,300€2,325€1,300€950€775€3,175
2025€9,475€3,475€2,500€1,400€1,000€825€3,375
2026€10,200€3,700€2,700€1,500€1,075€900€3,600
2027 (forecast)€10,600€3,800€2,800€1,550€1,125€925€3,700

Source: Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026 · group shares from Nationaal Trouwonderzoek and ThePerfectWedding, back-calculated with CBS category series

The 2026 cost items, largest to smallest

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2026 cost items with the change since base year 2014. This list adds up to the 2026 index value, including the remainder we don't break down further.
Item2026 amountChangeBasis
Venue & catering€10,200+111% since 2014model estimate
Outfits & beauty€3,700+74% since 2014model estimate
Photography & video€2,700+108% since 2014model estimate
Music & entertainment€1,500+107% since 2014model estimate
Wedding rings€1,400n/amodel estimate
Flowers & decoration€1,075+95% since 2014model estimate
Ceremony (fees & registrar)€900Friday municipal fees +32.5% since 2019 (ThePerfectWedding)model estimate
Wedding cake€400n/amodel estimate
Invitations & save-the-dates€317digital from €59measured
Wedding transport€300n/amodel estimate
Favours€275n/amodel estimate
Other, not itemised€908contingencies and small itemsmodel estimate

Source: Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026 · of the 12 items, 1 appears as such in a published source; the rest are Lovitations model estimates, see the Basis column in the table

Why does everyone quote a different amount?

Search for 'how much does a wedding cost' or 'average wedding cost' in the Netherlands and every site gives you a different number: one says €15,000, another €25,000, and the well-known studies seem to contradict each other. Usually there's no contradiction at all, because the figures simply measure different things. Four differences explain almost all the confusion.

The first difference is budget versus actual spend. In 2023 ThePerfectWedding found a planned budget of €17,595, while couples ended up paying €21,539, or 22.4% more than budgeted (ThePerfectWedding, 2023). So an 'average wedding' of €17,595 and one of €21,539 can describe exactly the same couples.

The second difference is the honeymoon. The Nationaal Trouwonderzoek (Dutch National Wedding Survey) includes the trip, arriving at €21,800 in 2022 (Toptrouwlocaties, n=700) and around €18,000 in 2019 (Effectmeting, n=1,131). ThePerfectWedding leaves the trip out and arrives at €23,675 in 2026. The Lovitations Wedding Cost Index deliberately excludes the honeymoon, so weddings can be compared fairly.

The third difference is how the figure is measured. Some figures are added up from supplier prices, meaning what a photographer or venue charges, while others come from surveys of married couples looking back afterwards. A supplier-based estimate and a survey of couples rarely come out exactly the same.

The fourth difference is the number of guests, and it's almost never mentioned. The €23,675 figure rests on a sum of supplier rates that costs dinner, cake, invitations and favours at 50 covers. So we link it to a reference wedding of 50 day guests and 100 evening guests and work out any other guest list with fixed amounts per guest. A longer guest list means a higher amount, even though most publications never say so. The table below puts the best-known amounts next to their basis.

A planned budget of €17,595 became €21,539 actually paid, or 22.4% more (ThePerfectWedding, 2023).

The best-known Dutch wedding cost figures next to their basis: budget or actual spend, including or excluding honeymoon.
AmountYearBasisSource
€23,6752026Complete wedding, excl. honeymoon (modelled, reference of 50 day and 100 evening guests)Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026
€23,6752026Sum of supplier rates, 50 covers, excl. honeymoonThePerfectWedding
€21,5392023Actually paid, 22.4% over budgetThePerfectWedding
€17,5952023Budget planned in advanceThePerfectWedding
€21,8002022Actual spend, incl. honeymoon (n=700)Nationaal Trouwonderzoek / Toptrouwlocaties
c. €18,0002019Actual spend, incl. honeymoon (n=1,131)Nationaal Trouwonderzoek / Effectmeting

Venue & catering: the biggest and fastest-rising item

Venue and catering together are the biggest cost of a Dutch wedding: around €10,200 in 2026, or 43% of the whole budget (Lovitations Wedding Cost Index). In base year 2014 the same item was €4,825, a rise of 111% in twelve years. No other category weighs as much or grows as fast: where your guests gather, eat and drink decides almost half the bill.

The engine behind that rise is hospitality inflation. Dutch hospitality prices rose 7.9% in 2022 and another 8.8% in 2023 (CBS). Over the long term the gap with the rest of the economy keeps widening: since 2000 hospitality prices have risen 126%, against 84% general inflation (Raisin via LINDA, 2026). A wedding venue with catering buys in exactly that market (staff, kitchen, venue hire and drinks) and passes the increase straight on to you.

Make it concrete with a cup of coffee. In Dutch cafés and restaurants it cost €1.87 on average in 2012 and €2.62 in 2022: 40% more in ten years (beslist.nl, via Lunchroom.nl). A cappuccino in town is heading towards €4, and a beer on a terrace rose from €2.38 in 2015 to €3.20 in 2023. Every cup of coffee at your wedding carries that rise, multiplied by your guest list. What looks like pocket change on a terrace becomes a serious sum at a wedding.

Work it out per cover and you can see where the money goes. A dinner costs €35 to €65 per person, depending on whether it's a barbecue or a three- to four-course menu. A day guest who stays all day (ceremony, drinks, dinner and evening party) costs €100 to €150 all-in for food and drink. With a hundred guests, the catering alone quickly runs to many thousands of euros, before you've even paid for the venue.

Exactly how much depends heavily on who you ask. In 2019 the venue alone came to €7,522 (Effectmeting NTO 2019) and by 2022 venue plus catering had risen to €9,600 (Toptrouwlocaties NTO 2022), although both figures can only be checked indirectly or via an archived version. For 2026 the published amounts range from €7,050 (ThePerfectWedding, venue and catering only) to €11,104 (Toptrouwlocaties, including decoration). Our €10,200 is a model estimate that sits between them; no source quotes that exact amount.

At around €10,200, venue and catering are the biggest cost of a Dutch wedding in 2026: 43% of the budget, and up 111% since base year 2014. The amount is a model estimate; published figures range from €7,050 to €11,104.

  • Dinner: €35–€65 per cover, from barbecue to a three- or four-course menu (2026 benchmark).
  • Day guest all-in (food, drink, whole day): €100–€150 per person.
  • Cup of coffee in Dutch cafés: €1.87 in 2012 → €2.62 in 2022 (+40% in ten years).
  • Beer on a terrace: €2.38 in 2015 → €3.20 in 2023.
Published amounts for venue and catering, with their basis and verification status.
YearVenue & cateringSource / measurement
2019€7,522Effectmeting NTO 2019, venue (n=1,131). Can only be checked indirectly.
2022€9,600Toptrouwlocaties NTO 2022, venue + catering (n=700). The live page no longer shows this figure.
2026€7,050ThePerfectWedding, venue and catering only (supplier rates).
2026€11,104Toptrouwlocaties, venue, catering and decoration.
2026c. €10,200Lovitations Wedding Cost Index (model estimate, between the two 2026 figures).

The wedding cake moves with the same hospitality inflation

What does a wedding venue cost? Prices and examples

'Wedding venue prices' is what almost every couple searches for first, and the honest answer is that the spread is huge. Bare venue hire in the Netherlands ranges from around €2,000 to €15,000. Region is the biggest factor: in Amsterdam, venue hire runs roughly from €8,000 to €15,000, in Groningen from €4,000 to €7,000, and in the Randstad (the urban west around Amsterdam, Rotterdam, The Hague and Utrecht) you pay 25 to 40% more across the board than elsewhere.

Most venues don't charge bare hire but an all-in package per person, usually somewhere between €50 and €200 per guest, depending on what's included. For the individual parts, allow: a dinner of €35 to €65 per cover, a walking dinner of €50 to €120 per person, a drinks package of €4 to €7.50 (standard) or €6.50 to €15 (full bar) per person per hour, and an evening party package of €20 to €50 per person.

The type of venue mainly decides where in that range you land: castles, country estates and grand city buildings sit at the top, farms, barns and beach pavilions in the middle, and a village hall, restaurant or hired warehouse at the bottom. A real couple from this study shows it can be done differently: they hired a hay barn for €600 a day and held a complete wedding there for 120 guests for around €6,500. When comparing, watch out for the transparency problem: many venues don't publish prices online. So always ask for an all-in quote per person, including venue hire, staff and final cleaning.

Hiring a Dutch wedding venue costs €2,000 to €15,000 and an all-in package €50 to €200 per guest; in the Randstad you pay 25 to 40% more than elsewhere.

Indicative Dutch venue costs (ranges from published sources, July 2026).
ItemRange
Venue hire (national)€2,000–€15,000
Venue hire, Amsterdam€8,000–€15,000
Venue hire, Groningen€4,000–€7,000
All-in package per guest€50–€200
Dinner per cover€35–€65
Walking dinner pp€50–€120
Drinks package pp per hour€4–€7.50 (standard) · €6.50–€15 (full bar)
Evening party package pp€20–€50
Budget example: hay barn (real couple)€600 per day

The wedding cake

The wedding cake is a small item with big symbolic value: about €400 on average in the Netherlands in 2026 (ThePerfectWedding). Per person you're looking at roughly €4 to €12, around €9 on average, with most bakers requiring a minimum order of 20 to 25 servings. A tiered design with sugar work or fresh flowers adds up faster than a simple naked cake.

That €400 follows the hospitality and ingredients curve too. Butter, flour, eggs and sugar have become much more expensive in recent years, and Dutch hospitality prices rose 7.9% in 2022 and 8.8% in 2023 (CBS); 126% in total since 2000, against 84% general inflation (Raisin via LINDA, 2026). So the wedding cake is no exception to wedding inflation, but a compact reflection of it: the same ingredients and craftsmanship that make your whole catering more expensive go into that one slice of cake.

A wedding cake costs €400 on average in the Netherlands in 2026, roughly €4 to €12 per person (ThePerfectWedding), following the same hospitality and ingredients inflation as the rest of the catering.

What does a wedding dress cost?

The wedding dress is the most measurable part of this cost group, because three successive national wedding surveys put a price on it. In data year 2014 a Dutch bride spent €1,542 on average on her dress, in 2019 €1,758 and in 2022 €2,021, a rise of 31% in eight years. The whole outfits & beauty group (dress, suit, hair and make-up together) grew from €2,125 in base year 2014 to €3,700 in 2026, or +74%. That makes it one of the calmest items on the bill, because the average Dutch wedding as a whole became 99% more expensive over the same period.

Behind that average is a wide ladder of price bands. At the bottom, you can buy a dress at an outlet or online for €299 to €999. In the mid-range, a dress from an established label costs €1,500 to €2,500, plus another €100 to €400 in alterations to make it fit. Designer or couture starts at around €3,000. The table below sets out the three tiers side by side.

The wedding suit follows a similar pattern with a low entry point: across ten Dutch suppliers a made-to-measure suit starts at €499 to €1,499, with a median 'from' price of €849 and a market average of around €900. Realistically a groom spends more like €900 to €1,800 once fabric and finish are chosen. Hair and make-up complete the group: a full bridal package including a trial costs €275 to €695, with a median of €450. The trial accounts for about half the package price, and for an evening or weekend appointment allow a surcharge of around €50.

Why did this group, at +74%, lag behind the +99% of the wedding as a whole? Clothing inflation simply ran slower than broad consumer prices: while general inflation in the Netherlands peaked at 10% in 2022, clothing stayed around +5%, and in 2024 clothing price rises of +1.3% (June) to +2.1% (September) were once again below average. What stands out when shopping around is a transparency problem: full-price bridal shops rarely publish a price and tell you to 'book an appointment', while outlets and budget labels (€199–€999) do put their prices online. That makes the market look cheaper than it is: the more expensive half of the range stays literally invisible until you're standing in the shop.

The average Dutch wedding dress rose 31% in price between 2014 and 2022, from €1,542 to €2,021, but the outfits & beauty group as a whole rose less steeply since base year 2014 (+74%) than the wedding overall (+99%).

  • Wedding suit: entry level €499–€1,499, median 'from' price €849, realistic spend €900–€1,800.
  • Hair & make-up: full package including trial €275–€695, median €450, evening or weekend surcharge around €50.
  • Budget and outlet labels publish dresses from €199–€999; full-price bridal shops keep their prices to themselves.
Wedding dress price ladder (2026 prices, Netherlands)
TierDress priceAlterations
Outlet / online€299–€999n/a
Established label€1,500–€2,500€100–€400
Designer / couturefrom €3,000bespoke

See where the big money does go: venue & catering

What does a wedding photographer cost?

A wedding photographer covering your whole day costs €2,200 to €3,600 in the Netherlands in 2026, according to market consensus. Prices are built on hourly tiers (6, 8 or 12 hours of coverage), with a physical album pushing the top end up. In practice you'll see packages of €1,795 for 8 hours and €2,295 for 12 hours including an album, an experienced photographer starting at around €1,750 to €2,000 for 6 hours, and a professional coming in above €3,500 for 8 hours. Across the whole market the range runs from €1,500 to €4,200, with a few outliers approaching €5,000.

The videographer is usually the cheaper half of the pair. An average film of the day costs about €1,500; budget options start at €650 to €900 and premium productions run to €2,100 to €2,700, with some suppliers only working from €2,449. Allow an hourly rate between €60 and €200, depending on editing, a second camera and a drone.

The Nationaal Trouwonderzoek 2022 confirms the figures add up: couples spent €2,147 on average on their photographer. The whole photography & video group has risen +108% since base year 2014, from €1,300 to €2,700 in 2026. The engine behind this is service: this is skilled human work, and the price mainly follows wages and the hours a professional photographer puts into your day and the editing afterwards, not the price of the equipment.

A wedding photographer for the whole day costs €2,200 to €3,600 on average in the Netherlands in 2026; the Nationaal Trouwonderzoek 2022 measured average spend of €2,147. Photography & video has become 108% more expensive since base year 2014.

Guide prices for photography & video, Netherlands 2026
ServiceBudgetTypicalPremium
Photographer (whole day)€1,500€2,200–€3,600€4,200+
Videographer (film of the day)€650–€900≈ €1,500€2,100–€2,700

On to the dance floor: music & entertainment

Music & entertainment: the fastest riser of the three

The DJ is the backbone of the evening party and also the most predictable item. An all-in DJ booking for the evening costs about €800 to €1,000, with an overall range from €590 (a basic mobile disco) to €2,000 for a full production with lighting and sound. That works out at around €200 an hour, the benchmark rate almost every DJ in the Netherlands charges.

Live music covers a much wider range. You can book an acoustic duo from €595, a covers band costs €700 to €2,300 (covers bands in Limburg use neat tiers of €700, €875 and €1,050), and a big party band with brass and several singers starts at €2,300 and goes up to €5,000 and beyond.

Two different guide prices circulate for a four-hour DJ or band, and they're often confused. The Nationaal Trouwonderzoek 2019 recorded €1,050; ThePerfectWedding arrives at €1,390 for 2026. That difference of just over €300 in seven years fits the rest of this study, but they're two measurements by two parties, not one researcher's series.

Despite the keen entry prices, music & entertainment is the fastest-rising item of these three: since base year 2014 the group has risen +107%, from €725 to €1,500 in 2026. As with photography, the rise is in labour and hours, not materials: a DJ or band mainly sells time, experience and the promise of a packed dance floor.

An all-in DJ for the evening party costs about €800 to €1,000 in the Netherlands in 2026 (around €200 an hour). For a four-hour DJ or band, the Nationaal Trouwonderzoek 2019 recorded €1,050 and ThePerfectWedding €1,390 for 2026. Music & entertainment has become 107% more expensive since base year 2014.

Music & entertainment price ladder, Netherlands 2026
OptionGuide price
Mobile disco / basic DJ setfrom €590
DJ for the evening, all-in€800–€1,000 (≈ €200/hour)
Acoustic duofrom €595
Covers band€700–€2,300
DJ or band, 4 hours (Nationaal Trouwonderzoek 2019)€1,050
DJ or band, 4 hours (ThePerfectWedding 2026)€1,390
Big party band€2,300–€5,000+

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The ceremony: it can be free, but councils charge more and more

The cheapest part of a Dutch wedding is also the part rising fastest in price. Getting married at the town hall on a Friday cost €390.20 in fees on average nationwide in 2019; in 2026 it's €517.09, a rise of 32.5% in seven years. Both amounts come from the same ThePerfectWedding survey of councils, 355 in 2019 and 342 in 2026, so it's a fair comparison within one series.

A second count points the same way. The ANP news agency's survey of all municipal wedding fees in February 2026 found an average Friday rate of €506, twenty euros more than a year earlier, and almost €794 for a Saturday. In only eleven councils did getting married become cheaper that year. Don't mix that €506 with the €517.09 above: they come from different researchers and different numbers of councils. In the Lovitations Wedding Cost Index the ceremony item grew accordingly: from €450 in base year 2014 to €900 in 2026, exactly double.

Where you marry makes a difference of hundreds of euros. In Emmen a weekday ceremony in the Trouwpaviljoen (Monday to Thursday, 9am to 12pm) costs €121.15; in Utrecht the same weekday at the city hall costs €1,066.25, almost nine times as much. The weekend widens the gap further: a Saturday in Leeuwarden runs to €1,528, and in Utrecht an evening or weekend ceremony can cost €1,589. The rule is simple: the later in the week and the bigger the room, the higher the bill.

Free weddings do exist, and they're even written into law: Dutch councils with more than 10,000 residents must offer at least two free ceremony slots a week. The reality is trickier. In cities like Amsterdam and Utrecht the wait for a free slot runs to 9 to 12 months, and 169 councils limit free weddings to their own residents. Those free slots are often bare-bones too: a short ceremony on a weekday morning, with a handful of guests and no frills.

And sometimes 'free' isn't really free. Research by Dutch broadcaster NOS found that five councils (Bergen op Zoom, Halderberge, Duiven, Gorinchem and Westervoort) still charged for a free ceremony, between €23.75 and €97.65, even though the Dutch association of civil registry officials, NVVB, says that isn't allowed. It's exactly this mix of rising fees and limited free slots that's feeding a new trend: 'marry for free, then throw a big party' is gaining ground among couples who'd rather spend their money on the day itself than on the signature.

If you want a personal ceremony instead of a standard one, you hire a freelance registrar, known in Dutch as a BABS (buitengewoon ambtenaar van de burgerlijke stand). They usually charge €800 to €2,000, with outliers from €600 to €3,000, depending on preparation and travel distance. A freelance registrar handles not just the legal part but also helps you make the ceremony personal. Note: the BABS part of this cost item is a model estimate on our side, because there's no live source with a verifiable national rate.

Getting married at a Dutch town hall on a Friday became 32.5% more expensive between 2019 and 2026, from €390.20 to €517.09 (ThePerfectWedding, two of its own surveys). A separate ANP count from February 2026 arrives at an average of €506 for a Friday and found only eleven councils where getting married became cheaper.

  • National Friday rate: €390.20 in 2019 → €517.09 in 2026, or +32.5% (ThePerfectWedding, 355 and 342 councils respectively).
  • ANP survey, February 2026: Friday €506 on average (€20 more than a year earlier), Saturday almost €794, and only eleven councils got cheaper.
  • Cheapest weekday: Emmen €121.15. Most expensive weekday: Utrecht €1,066.25.
  • 169 councils limit free weddings to their own residents; waiting times run to 9–12 months.
  • Freelance registrar (BABS): €800–€2,000, with outliers of €600–€3,000 (market picture, not a national measurement).
"Getting married and want to write the perfect vows? I'll help you!"
– registrar Babs Benny on TikTok
Dutch wedding fees 2026: selected councils, weekday versus weekend (amounts per council, indicative).
CouncilWeekdayWeekend / Saturday
Emmen€121.15n/a
Amsterdam€481up to €875
Eindhoven€514€782 (Sat)
Rotterdam€624.40€981.50
Leeuwarden€874€1,528 (Sat)
Utrecht€1,066.25€1,589

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Flowers & decoration: from bouquet to buttonhole

Flowers are one of those items that start small and add up fast. A bridal bouquet costs under €100 if you keep it budget-friendly, around €150 on average, and €200 or more at the high end. Then there are corsages and buttonholes: allow about €5 each for guests and around €20 for the groom's buttonhole. Want to dress the wedding car too? That's another €100 to €150 for car decorations.

You can see flowers getting pricier in the growers' figures: Dutch ornamental horticulture prices rose 4.7% in 2023. Across the board, the flowers and decoration item has risen 95% since base year 2014, from €550 to €1,075 in 2026. Flowers follow the same steep line as the rest of the wedding, even if the amounts per bouquet look modest.

The flowers and decoration item has risen 95% since base year 2014: from €550 to €1,075 in 2026.

  • Bridal bouquet: budget < €100 · average ≈ €150 · high end €200+.
  • Buttonhole or corsage: ≈ €5 (guest) and ≈ €20 (groom).
  • Wedding car decorations: €100–€150.

Wedding rings: the gold price drives the bill

Wedding rings may be the smallest object of the whole day, but their price has become anything but small. A classic pair in 14-carat gold starts at around €1,400. In the mid-range you pay €2,000 to €3,500 a pair; at the high end that climbs to €4,000 to €9,000. Choose white gold instead of yellow gold and you'll pay another 10 to 14% more.

The engine behind those prices is the gold price. In November 2025 gold stood at about €113 per gram. Because the precious metal makes up most of a gold ring, every rise in the gold price feeds straight into what you pay at the counter.

You can see how sharply it climbed in the series: ThePerfectWedding put wedding rings at €875 a pair, while in 2026 a classic 14-carat pair already starts at around €1,400. That's about 60% higher, though it compares an average with an entry price. Most of the rise is down to gold.

In November 2025 gold stood at about €113 per gram, pushing wedding ring prices up with it: a classic 14-carat pair starts at around €1,400 in 2026, against €875 in ThePerfectWedding's figures.

  • Classic 14-carat pair: from ≈ €1,400.
  • Mid-range €2,000–€3,500 · high end €4,000–€9,000.
  • White gold costs 10–14% more than yellow gold.
  • ThePerfectWedding: €875 a pair → in 2026 you start at around ≈ €1,400.

Invitations: paper versus digital

According to The Perfect Wedding, a set of paper wedding invitations in the Netherlands costs €226 on average, and the save the dates that go out before them another €91, so together you're at around €317 before a single stamp goes on. You typically pay €1 to €3 per card; choose foil or embossing and that rises to €4 to €5 each. A run of 50 cards, including design and printing, comes to €395 in the same figures. And the printing isn't the end of it: every card needs postage, and every reply that comes back has to be processed and tracked by hand. In the 2019 Effectmeting study, 100 cards including postage came to about €300 in total.

The market for digital wedding invitations and wedding websites works differently: it's a one-off payment, not a subscription, ranging from €49 to €350 with a median of €299. Lovitations' entry products are deliberately priced below that: a Save the Date costs €59 and a complete Wedding Website €99, both one-off and both with RSVPs included. More extensive packages, up to Couture (from €450, on request, including optional printed cards), fall outside this comparison.

Set that €99 website against the €317 spent on paper on average, or against the €299 median in the digital market, and you save roughly €200 to €250, around 70 percent. And you get something back that paper can't do: RSVPs are collected and tracked automatically, and a change of address, a new time or a different venue can be updated live, with no new print run, no reprint and no extra postage.

It helps to know when to send what. Registrar Babs Benny sums up the calendar briefly: the save the date goes out just under a year ahead, and the formal invitation follows about three months before the wedding. Going digital means you create one link that grows with those two moments, instead of going to the printer twice.

Paper: €317 on average in the Netherlands for invitations (€226) and save the dates (€91). Lovitations digital: Save the Date €59, Wedding Website €99, RSVPs included.

"Save the dates: just under a year ahead. The formal invitation: 3 months before the wedding."
– registrar Babs Benny on TikTok
Invitation cost comparison: paper versus a digital Lovitations website
ItemPaperLovitations digital
Invitations€1–€3 per card (luxury €4–€5); set €226 on averageincluded in the €99 Wedding Website
Save the dates€91 on average€59
Postagepostage per cardn/a
Reprint after changesnew print run neededincluded (updated live)
RSVPprocessed and tracked by handautomatic, included

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The small items: transport, favours and contingencies

Wedding transport is the item with the widest spread. A vintage car with a chauffeur for four hours costs €300 to €500; if you'd rather drive a hired classic yourself, allow €200 to €250 a day. The Perfect Wedding uses €175 as its benchmark for a four-hour wedding car, so the choice between a chauffeur and driving yourself explains much of the difference.

Favours look like a small item, but they add up with the number of guests. For a wedding with 50 guests, The Perfect Wedding allows €275 for favours. It's an expense that's easy to overlook when drawing up your budget.

Finally, expect some surprises. In the Nationaal Trouwonderzoek, between 58 and 72% of couples spent more than planned, depending on the survey year. The Perfect Wedding found in 2023 that the actual bill came in 22.4% above the budget set in advance, on average. The advice that follows is simple: build in a buffer and don't plan down to the last euro.

58 to 72% of Dutch couples went over budget; actual spend was 22.4% above plan on average (TPW 2023).

  • Wedding transport (vintage car with chauffeur, 4 hours): €300–€500
  • Wedding transport (driving a hired classic yourself): €200–€250 a day
  • Wedding transport (TPW benchmark wedding car, 4 hours): €175
  • Favours (50 guests): €275 (TPW)
  • Contingencies: 58 to 72% of couples went over budget (Nationaal Trouwonderzoek)
  • Contingencies: actual spend +22.4% above budget on average (TPW 2023), so build in a buffer

What does a wedding planner cost?

A wedding planner in the Netherlands costs €1,200 to €6,000, and where you land in that range mainly depends on how much you hand over. Worth knowing straight away: this amount is not included in the €23,675 of the Wedding Cost Index. The index doesn't include a planner at all, so whatever you choose here comes on top.

If you only hand over the wedding day itself, as on-the-day coordination or a master of ceremonies role, you pay €1,200 to €2,500 according to the published rates of Dutch planners, centring on around €1,500. Full planning from start to finish runs from €3,000 to €6,000; the 'from' prices of planners who publish their rates are between €3,695 and €4,750. If you just want to buy a few hours, that costs €50 to €150 an hour, with €75 to €85 the most common published hourly rate.

There's a striking gap between what's written about this market and what the market actually charges. Articles and comparison sites consistently quote €600 to €1,500 for on-the-day coordination, but all six planners in our sample who publish their own prices charge €1,200 or more, centring between €1,400 and €1,900. If you go by the articles, you'll budget too low every time. Better to work with the prices planners put on their own websites.

And then there's that popular rule of thumb that a planner costs 10 to 15 percent of your budget: it doesn't match Dutch practice. The most common Dutch wedding budget is €10,001 to €15,000, and 10 to 15 percent of that is €1,000 to €2,250. For that amount you get on-the-day coordination, not full planning, because the cheapest published full-service packages start at €3,000 to €3,695. The rule only really works above a budget of €30,000. What's more, not a single planner in our sample actually charges a percentage: two describe the model but don't use it themselves.

How many couples actually hire a planner? Almost a quarter, according to panel research by iVOX for Trustoo (May 2025, n=1,000, margin of error 3.02%). Take that figure with a pinch of salt: it's a panel of Dutch people in general, not of couples who actually got married, and the client is a quotes platform with a commercial interest in a high percentage. We can't say anything about regional rate differences: no source quantifies the difference between the Randstad and the rest of the country for wedding planners, and none of the planners with published rates vary them by region.

A wedding planner in the Netherlands costs €1,200 to €6,000: €1,200 to €2,500 for on-the-day coordination only (centring on around €1,500) and €3,000 to €6,000 for full planning. These costs aren't included in the €23,675 of the Wedding Cost Index, so they come on top.

  • On-the-day coordination or master of ceremonies only: €1,200–€2,500, centring on around €1,500.
  • Full planning from start to finish: €3,000–€6,000; published 'from' prices €3,695–€4,750.
  • Individual hours: €50–€150; most common published hourly rate €75–€85.
  • The 10 to 15% of budget rule of thumb gives €1,000–€2,250 on the typical Dutch budget: enough for on-the-day coordination, not for full planning.
  • Almost a quarter of couples hire a planner (iVOX for Trustoo, May 2025, n=1,000; panel research, not a hard market figure).
  • Not in the index: the Wedding Cost Index doesn't include a wedding planner, so add this amount yourself.
Published wedding planner rates by service (Dutch planners who publish their own prices, checked August 2026).
ServiceRangeTypical
On-the-day coordination / master of ceremonies only€1,200–€2,500≈ €1,500
Partial planning€900–€3,500≈ €2,200
Full planning from start to finish€3,000–€6,000≈ €4,000
Individual hours€50–€150 per hour€75–€85

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The day in blocks: from getting ready to the last dance

A classic Dutch wedding day runs in set blocks. Getting ready starts around 9am, followed by the first look and the photo shoot in the late morning. Guests are welcomed from about 1.30pm, after which the ceremony usually starts between 2pm and 4pm; a civil ceremony lasts around 45 to 60 minutes. Straight afterwards come the toast and cutting the cake, at around quarter past three. Then there are two hours of drinks or a reception, dinner starts at about 6.30pm (two to three hours, for the day guests), and at 8pm or 8.30pm the evening guests arrive for the party, which goes on for three to five hours into the small hours.

Who you invite for which part shapes both the feel and the cost of your day. Day guests, your closest family and best friends, are there from start to finish and, at €100 to €150 per person, are your most expensive category. Evening guests, the wider circle, arrive around 8pm to 9pm for the party and cost an estimated €25 to €40. Reception guests are acquaintances who drop in for just one moment (the drinks or the cake) and, at about €12.50, cost the least. By moving people between these three categories, you can fit your budget without having to cut anyone.

Around those blocks there are roughly four possible routes, each with its own cost profile. One notable trend is 'marry for free, then throw a big party': Dutch councils with more than 10,000 residents must offer at least two free ceremony slots a week, and more and more couples use that to keep the ceremony free and put the budget into the party (rtvutrecht.nl, 2026). The downside is waiting times of 2 to 10 months and usually a limit of about five people at the free ceremony.

The classic Dutch wedding day runs from getting ready at 9am, through a ceremony between 2pm and 4pm, to an evening party that starts at 8pm or 8.30pm and goes on for three to five hours (Dutch day-planning sources, 2026).

  • Route A (classic whole day): ceremony, drinks, dinner and evening party for the day guests, with evening guests joining. The full programme, so the most expensive route: each day guest €100–€150.
  • Route B (with a reception): after the ceremony, a reception for reception guests (cake, toast, drinks, about €12.50 pp), followed by an intimate dinner and party. Reaches a big circle at a low cost per guest.
  • Route C (evening party only, or a free town hall ceremony): a ceremony (possibly free at the town hall) and an evening party with nibbles, without a full dinner. The most budget-friendly route.
  • Route D (weekend wedding): arrival and barbecue on Friday, the wedding on Saturday, brunch on Sunday. Two to three days, but not necessarily more expensive than a classic day.

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Route A: the classic whole day

index level €23,680

Day guests all day, evening guests joining for the party. The most expensive route: every day guest counts for both dinner and the party.

  1. Getting ready09:00
  2. First look & photos12:30
  3. Ceremony14:30
  4. Toast & cake15:15
  5. Drinks15:30
  6. Dinner (day guests)18:30
  7. Evening party (+ evening guests)20:30

Route B: with a reception

Reception guests come only for the toast and cake (about €12.50 per person), followed by an intimate dinner and party.

  1. Ceremony14:30
  2. Reception (reception guests)15:30
  3. Intimate dinner18:30
  4. Evening party20:30

Route C: free ceremony + evening party

A (nearly) free ceremony at the town hall, then one big evening party with nibbles instead of a dinner. The fastest-growing budget route.

  1. Free or budget town hall ceremonymorning
  2. Free afternoon
  3. Evening party with nibbles20:00

Route D: the weekend wedding

Two to three days with the same core group of guests. Not necessarily more expensive if the extra days stay informal (arrival barbecue, brunch).

  1. Friday: arrival & barbecue
  2. Saturday: the wedding
  3. Sunday: brunch & farewells

The Netherlands in international perspective

At €23,675 on average for a complete wedding in 2026 (excluding honeymoon, Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026), the Netherlands sits in the upper middle of the European table. Above it are the United States at $34,200 (about €31,600, The Knot 2026 Real Weddings Study, data year 2025, n=10,474), the United Kingdom at £21,990 (about €25,900, Hitched National Wedding Survey 2026, n=2,020) and Spain at €25,183 (Bodas.net 2025). Below the Netherlands are France (€19,293, Mariages.net 2026), Germany (€15,453, WeddyPlace Hochzeitsstudie 2024) and Flanders (€15,113 on average, De Grote Huwelijksenquête 2024).

That ranking compares apples with oranges, and it's important to know that. The Dutch figure is largely a supplier and planner estimate: added up from what suppliers charge on average. The German and Flemish figures, on the other hand, come from surveys of couples themselves. The scope differs too: Spain and France explicitly exclude the honeymoon and engagement ring, and the Flemish figure covers a wedding celebration of undefined size. And guest numbers vary widely (US 117, Spain 123, France 90, Germany 66), which explains a large part of the differences.

It's telling that surveys of couples also give you a median: in Flanders the median is €12,000 while the average is €15,113 (De Grote Huwelijksenquête 2024). That gap shows a luxury tail of expensive weddings pulling the average up: half of all couples are well below it. You can safely assume the same pattern applies to the Dutch figure.

Work it back to cost per guest and the Netherlands actually comes out well. In the United States a guest costs $292 (The Knot), in the United Kingdom £272 (Hitched 2026), in Spain €225 (Bodas.net 2025), in France €215 (Mariages.net 2026) and in Flanders €141 (De Grote Huwelijksenquête 2024). In the Netherlands a day guest, the most expensive category, costs about €125. So the Dutch total is relatively high, but per guest the Dutch marry remarkably frugally.

A Dutch wedding costs €23,675 on average in 2026, compared with $34,200 in the US (≈ €31,600, data year 2025), £21,990 in the UK (≈ €25,900) and €15,113 in Flanders, although these figures don't measure the same thing and guest numbers vary widely.

Average wedding costs and cost per guest, most recent studies. The amounts don't measure the same thing: scope, method and guest numbers differ by country.
CountryAverageData yearPer guestSource
United States$34,200 (≈ €31,600)2025$292The Knot 2026 Real Weddings Study (n=10,474)
United Kingdom£21,990 (≈ €25,900)2026£272Hitched National Wedding Survey 2026 (n=2,020)
Spain€25,1832025€225Bodas.net
Netherlands€23,6752026≈ €125 per day guestLovitations Wedding Cost Index
France€19,2932026€215Mariages.net
Germany€15,4532024n/aWeddyPlace Hochzeitsstudie
Flanders€15,113 (median €12,000)2024€141De Grote Huwelijksenquête

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Real couples: the spread behind the average

The €23,675 average hides a huge spread. Self-reported weddings of real Dutch couples range from a garden wedding of about €700 in 2010 (free ceremony slot, barbecue, the neighbour as photographer and a mother's dress altered to fit) to five-figure weddings. Other examples: a couple who married for about €3,000 including rings and honeymoon, with 12 guests and photos taken by friends; a wedding of about €6,500 with 120 day guests in a hired hay barn (€600 a day) with homemade nibbles and food trucks; and a couple who spent about €8,500 on 30 day guests plus around 100 evening guests, with an open bar and a good dinner as priorities.

Why are all these examples so far below the average? It's a selection effect. Couples proud of their budget love to write a blog or forum post about how thriftily they married; the €25,000 mainstream rarely shares its invoices online. So public self-reports are heavily skewed to the low end, while a luxury tail pulls the average up. We already saw hard confirmation that the median sits below the average in Flanders (€12,000 median versus €15,113 average, De Grote Huwelijksenquête 2024). Expect exactly the same pattern in the Netherlands.

Roughly speaking, weddings fall into three zones. The budget tail runs from about €700 to €6,500 and relies on a shorter guest list, a free or weekday town hall ceremony and self- or family-made catering. The realistic middle, where most couples actually are, is around €12,000 to €15,000. And the luxury tail starts at €30,000 and runs to €50,000 and beyond, driven by a city venue, full-service catering, a long guest list and sometimes a multi-day programme. The average falls right between those zones, so it describes almost nobody exactly.

Self-reported Dutch weddings range from about €700 (garden wedding, 2010) to €8,500 (30 day and 100 evening guests), far below the €23,675 average, because of a selection effect and a median that sits below the average (real couples research pack, 2026).

Self-reported weddings of Dutch couples (anonymised).
YearTotalGuestsNotable
2010≈ €700unknownGarden ceremony, free ceremony slot, barbecue, neighbour as photographer, mother's dress altered to fit
c. 18 years ago≈ €3,000 (incl. rings + honeymoon)12Free ceremony slot, photos by friends ~€150, cake and hairdresser as gifts
2018≈ €6,000unknownBiggest costs: band, food and drink, photographer
unknown≈ €6,500120 (whole day)Hay barn €600/day, homemade nibbles, food trucks ~€10 pp
unknown≈ €8,500 (excl. honeymoon)30 day + ~100 eveningOpen bar, priority on a good dinner

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Methodology & sources

The Lovitations Wedding Cost Index estimates the actual spend on a complete Dutch wedding, excluding honeymoon, for each year from 2014 to 2026, plus a clearly labelled forecast for 2027. There is no ongoing official measurement of wedding costs in the Netherlands, so the index is a model, not a survey. The anchor for 2026 is a sum of average supplier rates in which dinner, cake, invitations and favours are costed at 50 covers; no measured guest count comes with it. To work with it, we use a reference wedding of 50 day guests and 100 evening guests (those 50 covers plus the ratio from the Nationaal Trouwonderzoek 2019) and add or subtract €125 per day guest and €35 per evening guest for every guest more or fewer. The budget calculator uses the same reference. Every other total per guest count on this page is therefore labelled as our own derivation. Group amounts are rounded to €25 and each year's index value is the sum of those rounded groups, so every table adds up exactly. The 2027 forecast rolls the cost groups forward using expected hospitality (+4%), municipal fee (+3.8%) and inflation (+3%) increases, and will be replaced with measured figures once the first 2027 studies are published.

The base year is 2014, the first year covered by a national survey of Dutch married couples. The model rests on four anchor years from published studies: the Nationaal Trouwonderzoek 2015 (data year 2014, 901 couples), the Nationaal Trouwonderzoek 2019 (1,131 couples), the Nationaal Trouwonderzoek 2022 (700 couples) and the current ThePerfectWedding figure for 2026. Amounts that included the honeymoon were converted to exclude it, using the travel figures from the same studies. Between anchors we interpolate at a constant growth rate. The split into seven cost groups follows published budget breakdowns and is calculated per group with a matching price series: hospitality prices for venue and catering, municipal fees for the ceremony and the CBS consumer price index for the other groups. That group split is therefore a model output, not a measurement per group.

The model is a script in our repository (docs/research/trouwkosten/model.mjs). It runs from base year 2014, so anyone can recalculate it. It reproduces every headline figure in this study; in a few intermediate years the script output differs from the published series by at most €50, because that series is pinned to the anchor years. The sources used are listed below, each with the status it received in the source check of August 2026. As a sanity check: our model year 2023 comes out at €19,175, while ThePerfectWedding reported actual spending of €21,539 for that year on a different basis, so the model errs on the cautious side rather than inflating costs. The source data was collected and verified in August 2026 and is rechecked periodically; figures may shift slightly with the next update. You're welcome to reuse figures from this study with a credit ("Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026").

Sources

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Frequently asked questions

How much does the average wedding in the Netherlands cost?
The average wedding in the Netherlands costs €23,675 in 2026 for a complete day, excluding honeymoon (Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026). Of that, around €10,200 goes on venue and catering, €3,700 on outfits and beauty, €2,700 on photography and video and €7,075 on the four remaining cost groups together: music and entertainment, flowers and decoration, the ceremony and 'other'.
What does a wedding cost in the Netherlands?
A complete wedding in the Netherlands costs €23,675 on average in 2026, excluding honeymoon (Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026). That covers the ceremony plus the celebration, with all the suppliers included.
What does a day guest cost at a wedding?
At a Dutch wedding in 2026, a day guest costs the couple about €125, within a range of €100 to €150 for the ceremony, drinks, dinner and evening party (Nature Weddings industry benchmark, 2024). That amount is made up of the reception (€12.50), dinner (€35 to €65) and the party package (€40 to €50).
What does an evening guest cost at a wedding?
At a Dutch wedding in 2026, an evening guest costs the couple an estimated €35, within a range of €25 to €40 for drinks, nibbles and a slice of cake. That amount is a Lovitations model estimate: there is no published Dutch figure per evening guest, and the only publication that does give an amount comes out higher.
What does a wedding with 40 guests cost?
With 13 day guests and 27 evening guests, a 40-guest wedding costs an estimated €16,495 in 2026. That's Lovitations' own derivation: €23,675 for the reference wedding of 50 day guests and 100 evening guests, minus €125 for every day guest and €35 for every evening guest fewer. Most of that amount is fixed items such as outfits, photographer, rings and the ceremony, which don't shrink with fewer guests.
What does a wedding with 50 guests cost?
With 17 day guests and 33 evening guests, a 50-guest wedding costs an estimated €17,205 in 2026, our own derivation from the €23,675 reference wedding (50 day guests and 100 evening guests) using €125 per day guest and €35 per evening guest. If all 50 guests stay the whole day, you get the reference minus 100 evening guests: about €20,175.
What does a wedding with 100 guests cost?
With 33 day guests and 67 evening guests, a 100-guest wedding costs an estimated €20,395 in 2026: €23,675 minus 17 × €125 minus 33 × €35. With 60 day guests and 40 evening guests it becomes €23,675 plus 10 × €125 minus 60 × €35, about €22,825. Both amounts are Lovitations' own derivations, not measurements.
What does a wedding with 150 guests cost?
A wedding with 150 guests costs €23,675 in 2026 if that means 50 day guests and 100 evening guests: exactly the reference wedding of the Lovitations Wedding Cost Index. If the split shifts towards more day guests, every guest who moves from the evening to the day adds about €90.
What does a wedding with 200 guests cost?
With 67 day guests and 133 evening guests, a 200-guest wedding costs an estimated €26,955 in 2026: €23,675 plus 17 × €125 plus 33 × €35. That too is a Lovitations derivation, not a measurement. If you invite more people for the whole day, the amount rises faster, by €125 per extra day guest.
What does a wedding planner cost?
A wedding planner in the Netherlands costs €1,200 to €6,000, depending on how much you hand over: €1,200 to €2,500 for on-the-day coordination only (centring on around €1,500) and €3,000 to €6,000 for full planning from start to finish. Individual hours cost €50 to €150, with €75 to €85 the most common published hourly rate. These costs aren't included in the €23,675 of the Wedding Cost Index, so they come on top.
What will a wedding cost in 2027?
For 2027 the Lovitations Wedding Cost Index forecasts €24,500 for a complete Dutch wedding, excluding honeymoon, 3.5% more than the €23,675 of 2026. This is a forecast based on expected hospitality (+4%), municipal fee (+3.8%) and inflation (+3%) increases, not a measurement; the figures will be updated as soon as the first 2027 studies are published.
What does a wedding venue cost?
Bare hire of a Dutch wedding venue ranges from about €2,000 to €15,000; most venues charge an all-in package of €50 to €200 per guest (July 2026). In the Randstad, prices are 25 to 40% higher than elsewhere in the Netherlands.
What does a wedding cost on average in 2026?
A complete Dutch wedding costs €23,675 on average in 2026, excluding honeymoon (Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026). For comparison: ThePerfectWedding also arrives at €23,675 for the same 'all-in' wedding, likewise without honeymoon, although that is a sum of supplier rates and not a survey of couples.
What does a wedding cost per guest?
Who you invite decides the price: a day guest costs €100 to €150 on average in the Netherlands in 2026 (ceremony, dinner and evening party) and a reception guest around €12.50, both according to the Nature Weddings industry benchmark (2024). There's no published Dutch figure for an evening guest; as a model estimate, Lovitations works with €25 to €40.
What does it cost to get married at a Dutch town hall?
Getting married at a Dutch town hall on a Friday costs €517.09 on average in 2026, against €390.20 in 2019: a rise of 32.5% in seven years (ThePerfectWedding, two of its own surveys of 342 and 355 councils respectively). A separate ANP count from February 2026 arrives at an average of €506 for a Friday and almost €794 for a Saturday, and found only eleven councils where getting married became cheaper.
What do wedding invitations cost?
Paper wedding invitations and save the dates together cost €317 on average in the Netherlands, excluding postage (ThePerfectWedding). At Lovitations, a digital wedding invitation with its own wedding website starts at €59, saving you postage, reprints and separate RSVP cards.
What's a realistic budget for a small wedding?
A small wedding mainly scales with your guest list: in the Netherlands, allow €100 to €150 per extra day guest in 2026 (Nature Weddings industry benchmark, 2024). How low it can go is shown by the 2025 Wedding Report from savings platform Raisin, published via LINDA: a quarter of Dutch couples paid less than €2,000, while another quarter came in above €15,000, and the five-year average was around €10,000. So read that €2,000 as the bottom of a very wide spread, not as a guide price; most couples spend well above it.
What is a realistic wedding budget?
The realistic middle, where most couples in this study sit, is around €12,000 to €15,000, well below the €23,675 average, because a small group of expensive weddings pulls that average up. In panel research by iVOX for Trustoo (2025), €10,001 to €15,000 is the wedding budget Dutch couples name most often. What's realistic for you depends mainly on the number of day guests.
Can you get married for €5,000?
Yes, if you deliberately go small. Couples who described their own weddings got married for about €3,000 including rings and honeymoon (12 guests, a free town hall ceremony, photos by friends) and for about €6,500 (a rented hay barn, homemade nibbles and food trucks). According to Raisin's 2025 wedding report (Trouwrapport), a quarter of Dutch couples spent less than €2,000, although another quarter spent more than €15,000. €5,000 is doable mainly with a free or weekday town hall ceremony, a short guest list and self- or family-made catering.
Why are weddings getting so much more expensive than inflation?
Since base year 2014 a Dutch wedding has become 99% more expensive, while general inflation (CBS) over the same period was 39% (Lovitations Wedding Cost Index 2026). So getting married rose about 2.5 times as fast as general inflation. The engine is hospitality: venue and catering are the biggest item at around €10,200, and Dutch hospitality prices have risen 126% since 2000, against 84% general inflation.
How many weddings are there each year in the Netherlands?
In 2024, 68,682 couples married in the Netherlands (CBS, final figure). Around those weddings is a wedding industry that turned over around €4.5 billion in 2023 and is estimated to include 18,000 businesses and self-employed people. That last figure is second-hand: trouwredes.nl publishes it and attributes it to the AD newspaper, and the original publication can't be found. So treat it as an order of magnitude, not measured turnover.

The easiest saving in this whole study

You can't do much about most cost items; hospitality simply keeps getting more expensive. But paper invitations and save the dates (€317 on average in the Netherlands, plus postage) are one thing you can replace: a digital wedding invitation with your own wedding website and automatic RSVPs starts at just €59.